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Child Abuse

5 children die every day from child abuse. 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of child sexual abuse. 1

Children should grow up in safe, healthy and supportive environments. Unfortunately, millions of young people are abused and mistreated by the adults responsible to care for them.

There are many forms of child abuse including physical and sexual abuse, emotional abuse, exploitation, willful neglect or any other act that could put a child at risk.

About Child Abuse

What is child abuse?

Child abuse is an act or set of acts that results in serious harm or risk of harm, including physical, sexual or emotional abuse, exploitation or death, inflicted by a parent, caregiver or other person who has responsibility for the child. If a caregiver fails to act and it results in serious harm or risk of harm, it is also considered child abuse.

This abuse includes the intentional failure to provide physical, emotional and psychological well-being for a child, such as withholding medical care or intellectual/educational stimulation.

While the majority of abuse cases involve a person who has authority of the child, any adult or older child can be a perpetrator.

What are some types of child abuse?

Legal definitions differ across jurisdictions, but there are general types of abuse to help identify whether a child has been abused:

  • Physical abuse. This consists of a non-accidental physical injury from beating, kicking, shaking, throwing or otherwise harming a child.
  • Sexual abuse. This consists of any sexual act on a child by an adult or older child, with or without force or threat of force, such as verbal seduction or abuse, anal or vaginal intercourse, oral sex or manual stimulation.
  • Emotional abuse. This consists of behavior that impairs a child’s emotional development or sense of self-worth, such as constant criticism and threats.
  • Psychological abuse. This consists of behavior that affects a child’s sense of worth, such as harsh demands and yelling.

Effects of Child Abuse

Know the Warning Signs

Perpetrators often convince and manipulate children to lie or be silent about their abuse, which can make it hard to recognize signs of child abuse. Children may also be scared, ashamed, guilty or embarrassed about the trauma they are experiencing. It can make a child feel confused or alone.

What are the warning signs?

Physical Signs
  • Visible and severe injuries, especially in infants. This includes bruises, sprains and burns
  • Injuries varying in healing stages
  • Burn marks
  • Injuries difficult to explain
  • Timing of injuries and/or its frequency, such as during particular times of year or once a month
Behavioral Signs
  • Behavior extremes, such as being overly compliant and passive or very demanding and aggressive
  • Increased avoidance or fear of a specific person or situation
  • Nightmares or difficulty sleeping
  • Difficulty expressing thoughts and feelings
  • Wearing clothing that covers up arms, legs and other parts of the body out of season
Sexual Signs
  • Pain or itching in the genital area
  • Bruises or bleeding in and around the genital area
  • Torn, stained or bloody clothing
  • Sexually transmitted infections
  • Pregnancy
  • Knowledge or interest in sexual behaviors that are not age appropriate
Developmental Signs
  • Failure to thrive socially or academically
  • Uncomfortable with physical contact with others
  • Slowed physical, emotional or intellectual development
  • Learning disorders
  • Speech disorders
Psychological Signs
  • Low self-esteem
  • Uncharacteristic obedience or perfectionism
  • Strong shame or guilt
  • Statements or behaviors that appear programmed

Emergency Resources

There are resources available for you. You are not alone. In an emergency, call 911.

National Child Abuse Hotline

1.800.422.4453

www.childhelp.org

National Domestic 
Violence Hotline

1.800.799.7233

www.thehotline.org

Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network

1.800.656.4673

www.rainn.org

National Teen Dating 
Abuse Helpline

1.866.331.9474

www.loveisrespect.org

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

1.800.273.8255 

988lifeline.org

  1. American SPCC, National Center for Victims of Crime
  2. Pereda, N., Guilera, G., Forns, M., & Gómez-Benito, J. (2009). The prevalence of child sexual abuse in community and student samples: A meta-analysis. Clinical Psychology Review, 29, 328–338. doi:10.1016/j.cpr.2009.02.007
  3. Finkelhor, D., & Shattuck, A. (2012). Characteristics of crimes against juveniles. Durham, NH: Crimes Against Children Research Center. Retrieved from http://www.unh.edu/ccrc/pdf/CV26_Revised%20Characteristics%20 of%20Crimes%20against%20Juveniles_5-2-12.pdf
  4. Bebbington, P. E., Cooper, C., Minot, S., Brugha, T. S., Jenkins, R., Meltzer, H., & Dennis, M. (2009). Suicide attempts, gender, and sexual abuse: Data from the 2000 British Psychiatric Morbidity Survey. American Journal of Psychiatry, 166, 1135-1140.

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